How to attract the love you want?

Many individuals can not understand why they get the same things reoccurring in their lives, they feel they should have someone who is more compatible with them, more harmonious plus a person with less complications too.

It is so important to sit down and take note of how you view the mates’ of your past and present. To begin to understand what it is you are attracting to you, think about your relationships for a minute.

What were the reasons they did not last? please write down a list of qualities and traits your person likes and also do a separate list of the qualities and traits your person does not like or care for in the other person.

Think about the things you like longer than you do about the things you do not like. Then write those things down. If you feel tension in the body as you do this exercises; ignore it! Keep going, this is a chance to set the record straight and to finally get clear on what you want to attract.

Really get into this list now, next make sure you have added as many things that your person does not like as needed.

Close your eyes and picture the conversations with people you have had about your relationships. Think of who you spoke to, their energy and manifesting effectiveness and then think about how many times you have entertained a talk about either the items on list one or number two.

Ask a couple questions to clarify the answers that come to you. Ask what positive words have I said about this person or situation? Also ask, how many times have I spoke about relationships between me and another with words that express my discontent for them. Use a number between 1-10 to rate your answers.

After you do that take a deep breath because you are well on your way to changing your future. Since you have reflected on the patterns of your life, you can now make some life long changes to the area of your life that deals with relationships. It is time to break the old patterns to make way for new things to come in.

Many individuals do not know how they attract everything they do not want to them. I am here to tell you that the law of attraction works with everything on earth. There is no exceptions. Your job is to keep pointing to all that you want to see more of. Remember that.

A good example of this was a friend was telling me that all she was attracting to her was, things like married men, shady friends’, unbalanced health to name a few. Next thing i asked was how many times does she say i do not want this or that to her friends or acqintences. When i asked that question, she said a lot. I said bingo! So i told her to follow the next steps.

Next, write down what you WANT in a mate right now. Do not hold back. Write a list of as many things as you need to to make the list complete. Now take this list and write affirmations out of them. On your list of I want it now: If you wrote: I want a mate who cleans up after themselves…

OK good, now to turn this into a affirmation that will assist you in the present we need to make sure the affirmation is written in the present tense for one. But also we need to speak about the item on this list that you want as if you already have it and its happening right now.

So here is the example of the finished affirmation: I am in a joyous relationship with a mate who cleans up after themselves (no matter what), (all of the time) or (daily) are some extra words you could add to really personalize the affirmation further.

It is important to word affirmations right because we get what we ask for. What we ask for is nothing more than things we feel passionate about. When we are passionate about something we are sending concentrated energy to it constantly.

In addition we need to recognize the healing that needs to take place within us. Yes we wrote lists and we can identify what others’ may need to transform. How about we write down some things about us that we can work on so we can bring forth a better us next time we are in a romantic relationship. Remember we must become the thing we seek. Like attracts like. After you write your list, then write a date that you want to heal or change the thing.

The other step to attracting the love that you want is to see you and someone together already. It does not matter if this is a picture of a place holder, meaning you choose to manifest visually with a photo of someone you do not know because you have not met a prospect to related or mate with yet.

To tie everything together that you have just read, please read the post that speaks about the 5 Step Process to attract Abundance and apply them along with the steps listed in here.

Success is yours already! Visualize it!

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About Sereda Aleta Dailey

Sereda Aleta Dailey is known by friends and seekers by her title: Sahyofeya, which means 'Great Mother'. She was born on 16th December 1977 in Salinas, California. Sereda, is a full-time writer and a health, spirituality and writing enthusiast for decades. She has published several noteworthy videos and articles online. She is a member and founder of the Bliss Returned Network. In her spare time she practices peace and joy in being fully present. She plays with astrology, creating art and adoring nature. She lives in Baltimore, Maryland, with her husband, currently working on her 11th novel.

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